August 20, 2011

Incommunicative

Assalamualaikum wbt

Bismillahi arrahmani arrahim...

Situasi 1
Lokasi: Dalam kereta
Kak A: Ok, ingat betul2 jalan ni..nanti tak la susah esok.

B : Ha tu la kak, saya ni bukan ingat sangat kalau jalan2 ni..tengok sekarang boleh la ingat..esok ha menggagau nak cari..bla..bla..bla..

Kak A : Hah, Seha boleh ingat tak? yang diam2 ni selalu cepat dapat ingat..

Seha: InsyaAllah kak.

Bella: Hah, nasib baik ada Seha..saya ni kalau nak ingat jalan memang susah..Seha ingat tau..nanti esok tak la kena marah dengan En. Zul. En. Zul tu bla..bla..bla..bla..kalau B ni wat salah sket, mula la dia bla..bla..bla..bla..bla

*Seha kat seat belakang senyum je*

Situasi 2
Lokasi: Office
Selesai majlis, yang lain berborak2..tiba2..

Kak A: Mana tau yang senyap2 ni la yang kahwin dulu..kan Seha?

Seha: (Monolog 1) : Aminn... (Monolog 2) : Aishhh, pehal tetibe naik nme ak ni?
Senyum jeeee....

Since I work at that company, have two people was judge me as incommunicative person..hmmm..I thought I was acting as real me enough..not incommunicative person but not so talkative..I have a chat with my colleague, my boss, my partner..but why ar?...sometime we do not noticed enough with what we do..hayyooo...

Incommunicative person usually associated with passive person. They judge the person without deeply knowing who is the person are. Pity rite?..hmmmm..but, the best part is they will not know what is a best thing about incommunicative person. they only look at negative part.

Usually, they (incommunicative person) have their own strength such as good in communication skills, a good thinker (because they more watching others act than comment or judging), and etc. Yeahh, all know that peoples born have their own strength and weaknesses rite?..talkative people also have their weaknesses. So, we are not able to judge 'incommunicative' is one of weaknesses. It can be the strength to someone if we can manipulate our weakness.

Till now, I also still searching and develop myself to change my weakness to be my strength..hmmm..

Why the this post I tell about incommunicative??
Hahahaha (bole lg ko gelak ea..)
All day in previous week I found that I'm incommunicative person..hoho..
Why ar?...I try to find the answer..but..hmmm..dunno why...
hmmmm (again)....
hmmmm (again)......
hmmmmmmmmm (n again)........

But, only in office...at home I've to change to real me..have a chat as usual..don't want to make my family worried with my changes...I hope this will not happen for a long period..

O Allah, please bless my life and my family..


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